Tarot as a conversation with yourself
Helping you understand yourself, one card at a time.
Understand what the cards mean, interpret them in context, ask useful questions and follow a reading wherever it leads.
A tarot reading doesn’t have to start with all the answers mapped out.
You can begin with one genuine question.
Pull a card. Consider what it means in the context of what you asked. Notice what it brings up for you.
Then ask the next question.
Question → Card → Reflection → Follow-up Question → Card → Deeper Exploration
You might investigate a cause, question an assumption, compare two choices, explore something you hadn’t considered or ask what needs your attention next.
The reading develops as your understanding develops.
Tarot becomes less about following a predetermined process and more about having a useful conversation with yourself.
Learn tarot until you can use it naturally for yourself
You don’t need to become an “advanced tarot reader” to use tarot well.
The aim is to develop enough knowledge, skill and confidence to sit down with your cards, begin with something you genuinely want to explore and know how to continue from there.
Empathy Tarot teaches five connected skills that help you develop that ability.
01
Learn
Build your tarot vocabulary
02
Interpret
Learn to understand cards in context
03
Ask
Learn to ask questions that help you explore
04
Explore
Learn to follow where the reading leads
05
Converse
Use tarot naturally for yourself
New to tarot? Start here.
You don’t need any previous tarot experience to learn with Empathy Tarot.
Start with the foundations, get comfortable handling your cards and begin learning how tarot works before gradually developing your interpretation skills.
What Is Tarot and How Does It Work?
Understand what tarot is, what’s inside a tarot deck and how the cards can be used as a tool for reflection.
How to Choose Your First Tarot Deck
What actually matters when choosing a deck, without making your first purchase more complicated than it needs to be.
Your First Tarot Reading: Step by Step
Got your cards? Learn how to sit down, ask a question, pull your cards and begin making sense of what you see.
Learn the tarot cards
Knowing traditional card meanings gives you a vocabulary to work with.
But knowing that The Fool means new beginnings isn’t the same as knowing what the Fool means here, in response to this question, in your circumstances.
Empathy Tarot teaches tarot card meanings as a foundation for interpretation rather than a list of definitions to memorize.
Learn the traditional foundations, look at how the cards can appear in real situations and gradually develop the ability to decide which aspects of a card matter in the reading in front of you.
Major Arcana
Explore the 22 Major Arcana cards and the themes, experiences and turning points they can represent.
The Fool
Learn the Fool’s traditional meanings and how its message can change depending on the question and context.
Use tarot for the things you’re actually thinking about
Tarot becomes useful when you have something you want to understand better.
Maybe you’re trying to make a decision, work out how you feel about a relationship, figure out why something keeps bothering you or make sense of a situation you can’t quite get your head around.
The cards give you another way to look at it. They can bring up questions you hadn’t thought to ask or help you see something from a different angle.
Decisions and uncertainty
Use tarot to look at your options, what matters most to you and anything you may not have considered yet.
Relationships
Explore what’s happening in a relationship, how you’re responding to it and any patterns or choices that might be worth looking at more closely.
Work and change
Use tarot to think through dissatisfaction, competing priorities, difficult decisions and what you actually want next.
Self-reflection
Use tarot on its own or alongside journaling to explore your thoughts, reactions, assumptions and patterns.
Why Empathy Tarot?
The empathy in Empathy Tarot begins with yourself.
For me, tarot is a way to understand yourself better. You can use the cards to look at what you’re thinking and feeling, question your assumptions and see situations from perspectives you might not have considered on your own.
You still make your own decisions. You decide whether an interpretation makes sense, what matters and what you want to do with what you’ve uncovered.
That’s what I mean by:
Tarot as a conversation with yourself.
I created Empathy Tarot to teach you how to use tarot this way, whether you’re picking up a deck for the first time or you already know the cards but want to become more confident using them for yourself.
Start exploring with three cards
The 3-Card Clarity Workbook gives you a simple way to explore something that’s on your mind using:
Situation → Influence → Insight
It’s an easy place to start if you want some structure without using a large or complicated spread.
Make tarot your own
The goal is to get to the point where you can pick up your cards and use them without needing someone else to tell you what to do next.
You’ll still look things up. You’ll still come across cards you’re unsure about. You might use spreads when they suit what you’re asking.
But you’ll also know enough about the cards to interpret them in context, ask your own questions and follow a reading wherever it takes you.
You can sit down with something that’s on your mind, ask a question and see where the conversation goes.
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